Day 111: 2 Samuel 16-18

David continues his flight from Jerusalem and his own son Absalom who is planning to take over the throne. He has planted a spy within Absalom's inner circle and this idea seems to be paying off. Hushai (the spy) has given Absalom advice about how to find and overtake David and his men and has then gotten word to David about their plans. The trap is set. However, in spite of all that Absalom has done, David seems to have a soft spot for this rebellious son. Here are his orders:

The king commanded Joab, Abishai and Ittai, “Be gentle with the young man Absalom for my sake.” And all the troops heard the king giving orders concerning Absalom to each of the commanders. (18:5)

I think Joab is a very interesting character in the life of David. He seems absolutely loyal but he also seems to know the right times to disregard David's orders. I think maybe he understands David's weaknesses and does what he can to cover for them. He knows leaving Absalom alive would be a big mistake. He also knows that David simply doesn't have it in him to destroy his own son. I think this is the real reason he talks David into staying behind when they go into battle (18:2-4).

The moment of truth has arrived...Absalom is hanging in a tree by his hair...defenseless. One of the men sees him and reports it to Joab:

Joab said to the man who had told him this, “What! You saw him? Why didn’t you strike him to the ground right there? Then I would have had to give you ten shekels of silver and a warrior’s belt.” (18:11)

Of course he didn't kill him. He was there when David gave the order to spare Absalom. However...

Joab said, “I’m not going to wait like this for you.” So he took three javelins in his hand and plunged them into Absalom’s heart while Absalom was still alive in the oak tree. And ten of Joab’s armor-bearers surrounded Absalom, struck him and killed him. (18:14-15)

The message was sent back to David that the victory was won. Great news! But then he asks about Absalom. His response is what you would expect...

The king was shaken. He went up to the room over the gateway and wept. As he went, he said: “O my son Absalom! My son, my son Absalom! If only I had died instead of you—O Absalom, my son, my son!” (18:33)

 I think everyone needs a Joab. Someone who knows us well...who is absolutely loyal and is always looking out for our best interest...even if it's not what we want.